His unconventional choice, an actress from L.A., is proof that the era of a predictable monarchy is well and truly over. As Meghan and Harry sat side by side to describe how they fell in love, we witnessed the beginning of a revolutionary new chapter. The last time a British royal picked an American divorcee as a partner it caused a constitutional crisis and almost brought down the family. Eighty-one years later, times have changed and now Harry is free to put his heart before his duty; but while his choice hardly makes for an international scandal, it’s arguably just as radical.
It’s a skill even Prince William and Harry, two heirs who have been media trained since their very first photo shoots as toddlers, have found elusive. It’s taken both of them well into adulthood to feel truly at ease when the press is around. The launch of their charity, Heads Together, helped slightly in forcing them to break protocol and express emotion, but such candor is still alien for the blue-blooded brothers.
With their hands intertwined, she happily made quips and whole-heartedly laughed as her adoring husband-to-be looked on. At times, she appeared to be the one steering the conversation. Her confidence was infectious and her sparkling demeanor definitely won over some of the more cynical royal observers. Despite her limited exposure to Harry’s inner circle, she’s proving she’s more than qualified to handle her future life as a duchess (it’s expected Harry will be gifted a dukedom by the Queen on his wedding day).
But British classism is nothing compared to what Harry and Meghan have the potential to break through. Like Kate, her new next-door neighbor at Kensington Palace, Meghan didn’t grow up with a silver spoon in her mouth (her mom is a social worker and yoga instructor and her dad, Thomas, used to be a TV lighting director, including here at E!). For a royal family whose longevity has been reliant on selective breeding, the future union of Meghan and Harry represents a love match free of geographical boundaries, racial divides, class differences and inequality.
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There is no doubt the combined star power of Meghan and Harry will match William and Kate’s international allure (and take some of the pressure off the Cambridge family). Just like her future sister-in-law, Meghan is becoming a style icon, with the outfit she wore for her big engagement announcement already selling out. And the ripped jeans she donned for her and Harry’s first public appearance at the Invictus Games prove she’s going to have more freedom when it comes to her wardrobe thanks to Harry’s place in the pecking order (he’s currently fifth in line to the throne, soon to be sixth when Will and Kate’s third child is born).
While it’s inevitable this marriage will require Meghan to give up a lot, namely her privacy and career (she shut down her lifestyle brand, The Tig, earlier this year and has confirmed she’s “transitioning out of” acting), in gaining a husband, she’s also acquiring a new platform through which she can make an even bigger impact on the world.
It led to Harry, two months into meeting Meghan, to sit her down and explain the realities of what being his life partner would really entail. As he explained, “…I had to have some pretty frank conversations with her. To say, ‘look, you know what you’re letting yourself in for, it’s a big deal and it’s not easy for anybody.'”
He continued, “…she’ll be really unbelievably good at the job part of it as well, is obviously a huge relief to me because she’ll be able to deal with…everything else that comes with it.”
As Harry explains, it was a love match that was meant to be: “The fact I fell in love with Meghan so incredibly quickly was sort of confirmation to me that everything—all the stars were aligned, everything was just perfect. It was this beautiful woman just sort of literally tripped and fell into my life, I fell into her life.”
And just like that, the Meghan-ization of the monarchy had begun.